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Tony D’Addeo
@deodad
call me old fashioned but the ideal amount of physical, um boundary setting, needed to guide young men in the world is non-zero this physical correction needs to come from a stranger as a consequence rather than a parent as a punishment the fact this is illegal means soft men who, often rightly, think there are no consequences for their actions not saying I know how to make this legal in a reasonable way that doesn't have it's own consequences but I imagine this can be done in smaller high trust communities
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@androidsixteen.eth
Men will literally invent fight club before going to therapy (Real)
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@six
After seeing some of these Twitch streamer clips lately I agree with you
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erica
@erica
i think this is mostly bc people primarily communicate behind the safety of a screen, get too big for their britches, and then think that when they walk out into the real world they can just say the same without any consequences i.e. keyboard warriors
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@na
analogue for young women?
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@woj.eth
poland will welcome your kids with open arms (and school fights behind the garages)
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@zinger
Translation: some young men just need a good, old-fashioned can of whoop ass
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@resipsa
i think the sliding scale changes based on how much emotional punishment is also involved. you might not have to physically scar them if you manage to traumatize them. i was never beaten once. but my “consequences” primarily being emotional in nature also helped me develop my EQ big time. i think i’m more or less the right amount of firmness. you did specify “men”, so male mileage may vary
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@stevedv.eth
Need more FO to balance the FA
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Dan Romero
@dwr.eth
this is apparently now old fashioned turns out I am old fashioned.
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Ciberdelia
@ciberdelia
It’s crazy how there is this distortion of reality about limits, especially young people, but literally physical correction shouldn’t be an option because maybe this can also create a new trauma or awaken something even worse and then the problem gets even bigger
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@ruminations
i think peers are a good source for this
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@luka
It is easier to learn from mistakes of others, but many are not smart enough (or wise) to take that lesson. Good old slap will straighten a fool I think is the expression 😆
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lifeisatape
@105108121
environment shapes a person, the rest is shaped by dna. the brain is wired to adapt to its environment in the early years of life. create a healthy environment and conditions—that's all you can do, i think
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