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I think we all have these 'objects'. Part of being seen and heard is to take those objects we value and put them on display for the world to see, and this is a scary process for everyone because we all have different objects to share.
We are humans, not dogs - and as such, we like to draw these lines in the sand, define everything, stick it in a box, quantify it, qualify it, and move on... but nothing is ever that simple.
So, to your question, I view it more this way - who am I to judge your objects you choose to share with the world and how you choose to share them? I care only that YOU are the one choosing to share them, and YOU are at peace with all that you share.
The second YOU are sharing something because SOMEONE ELSE made you believe that is why you are valuable and you do not value it or are not comfortable with it - you have been objectified and you are objectifying yourself.
That process is akin to a hidden handshake over a dark spellbound contract in the shadows more so than this picture everyone has of the lion pouncing on the gazelle.
I, too, wish people were more like dogs - and we could sniff each others' butts, appreciate the smell, and move on - this is just not the way of the world.
Sorry, Bert, I wish there was a better way. If the world was just Rascal and Bert, there would be no wars, little suffering, and way less pain. Unfortunately, a way less understanding and cruel species has dominion over the world right now...
This is a complex question. Thank you for asking it. Few here will give it the time it deserves - even my response fails to do that. 3 replies
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