I used to think everyone should have kids. Then I had kids.

in hindsight, i see how my clickbaity cast came off as dark. but im as pro children as they come.

Founder, designer, & product guy at /basepaint and /eigenlayer

altho maybe i could make the case that having kids is rly hard and not everyone is suited for it, but even then i think i end up on the side of being a bad parent is better than not being a parent at all

yeah i used to be on the “not a prio” side but after having kids its clearly the most important thing in life

Very much the opposite, I was a "it depends" guy and now I'm like "suffering is good you cannot become fully human without it, embrace it to abandon self towards the path of undoing."

i don’t think everyone should, you have to either want it or decide to actively show up when it happens

Yeah now I’m like “you gotta want em”

you can't leave the story there, please continue

Do you mean it like „It’s not for everyone“ or like „I regret it“.