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Ivy
@ivy
seeking some validation or not from other women i've come to the conclusion that at events crypto or otherwise we are responsible for our own safety and should be conscious of the dangers that exist and really not ever rely on the people or orgs creating the containers we inhabit
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Pichi
@pichi
Growing up I always heard these terrible questions when women were violated. “What was she wearing?” “Did she tease him or lead him on?” It’s been drilled into my head that anything bad that happens is my fault and I wasn’t being safe. It’s a terrible mind fuck. And it’s why as an adult I spend so much time in Japan. I can just breathe and not worry about being safe. I can just exist.
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adrienne
@adrienne
This is more or less the mindset I’ve had my entire life.
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dani
@smokingfrog.eth
correct, while extremely unfair it is an unfair reality
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Sam (crazy candle person) ✦
@samantha
yeah, unfortunately no one is responsible for our safety except for us, and we have to not put ourselves into precarious positions
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Marcela
@laursa.eth
Yes. So tired of listening about HIV needle contamination in carnivals or women being abused after being left behind by other people (mostly male friends who thought "it was ok" and "she would do ok on her own"). In brazil we tend to say "nós por nós", and we try to take care of each other.
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Speakup 🎩
@speakup
We need better profiles of those types of people who come after us vs how can we prevent this. Fear is socialized and it's how we raise females to be vigilant about their safety and surroundings.
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🎀 sonya (in theory) 🐰
@sonyasupposedly
pretty much agree. some events + environments are safer than others, but it's up to us as individuals to assess that, and as you know I don't think any community can eliminate predators completely
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