Linda Xie
@linda
A brief period awhile ago I had a few crypto people in my life who complained frequently about unfair things happening to them and some of it rubbed off on me. Constantly focusing on this ended up making me feel way less in control of my own situation so had to do a revert personally as it was impacting my agency
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Sam (crazy candle person) ✦
@samantha
I actually cannot stand people who complain about “unfair” things. Like yes the world is unfair but what are they gonna do to change it? Everyone has their locus of autonomy to make decisions, yes there’s restrictions, unfairness, not usually meritocracy (debatably), but within that the worm has to keep squirming
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Phil Cockfield
@pjc
This an easy trap to fall into, eh? I found the psychology of “games” (TA) in particular the “isn’t it awful” game helped me really understand whats going on, esp. when that tugg to be pulled in is in a group.
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Ivy
@ivy
that a16z ‘nobody cares’ article applies to so many things
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JAKE
@jake
complaining is incredibly contagious
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Andy Coravos
@coravos
I feel this! Have also had to make an internal shift in this way too recently
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⚡STIICKZ⚡
@stiickz
One big lesson I've been constantly learning lately Is to only worry about what you can control. If you can't control there's zero benefit to worrying about it. And if you can control it, do your best to change it into a desirable outcome
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Andrea
@andreap
The quantum game of life: whatever you focus on you see But love it that you noticed and inverted it, it’s not for granted!
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De Boy
@deboy
Don't beat yourself too much for it, people just want someone to blame for their mistakes and errors, don't want to take accountability just want credits all the time, so be careful and stay strong 👍
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