Elvi Thio
@elvi
Sometimes I think I want kids. But I never really feel like I want to be a mother. Still sitting with that and wondering if it’ll ever change…
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Jason
@jachian
I never questioned the thought, but I enjoyed reading Paul Graham’s essay on the topic from the vantage point of someone who didn’t initially want kids https://www.paulgraham.com/kids.html
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Bullers
@db
Not speaking from a mother’s perspective, but as a father I can tell you that your life completely changes the day your child is born. The world is no longer centered around yourself - it’s now about caring for a little human. It ain’t easy, but it’s fulfilling!
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grunt.eth
@grunt.eth
when it happens you'll be ready! (i mean you won't ofc, but you also will, if that makes sense :-)
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Nanahh
@nanah
i’m honestly inbetween, why do you think you want kids?
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Hb🎩🎭👑🐱
@hbeat
I believe that as time goes ones mind keeps getting matured to some certain stuff
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Toph🎩🔵
@tophb
Omg same. Two days ago, a lady asked me to help hold her kid about 7 months old cause she needed to use the restroom. I was happy to do it cause I love kids and he was cute. He was giggling and smiling at me for like the first 5 mins, then the next second he burst into a really loud cry. I was so confused, tried everything I knew to keep him quiet, nothing, at that point I wanted to return him and concluded I didn't want kids cause what would I have done if he was mine. Btw I've changed my mind now 😭.
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Inaba Hoor
@inabahoor
Same feeling
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MARA01 🟠
@mara01
At some time in life, you'll not just feel but you'll want kids.
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Demboss
@dembossoftedder
You want to adopt them?
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