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Clocking in for another day at the hater factory (loud happy whistling)

I think of it from the lens of I was much more concerned about myself in my 20s

As I approach 40, I have a lot more intention to being supportive and encouraging to the people around me

I’d bet the diff is close to nil. think grumpy grandpas! self-preservation bias is deeply rooted in us. it’s a ln awkward and conscious practice to do the opposite.

Would be curious about the average age of the people that line up on those doors

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I’m not referring to people who give feedback I’m referring to “you tell them girl”, “don’t listen to the haters”, “you live your best life”.

If you just look at Ted’s comments it’s 75% supportive with very little critique.

It’s the most common comment I ever read.

This is true but I see it more as ‘constructive criticism’ because lots of people who ‘encourage’ that way dont do it in a kind manner but more a criticising manner

Encourage should be over there with criticism.

We live in a society that loves giving support because it gives them endorphins hits and tells themselves it makes them a good person to do so.

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Lol, yes. Use the right tool to get the job done.

and the nail must hate to see screws being hammered

How does that saying go? "If you have the hammer then everything looks like an unjust critiquing to you 🎉!"

To help that one person is the real one ❤️

Gotta switch encouragement and involvement - its become pretty normalized for people to signal action but then take none.

This is "the lines of online life" people are more helpful and less criticizing irl in my experience

'to applaud' needs to be on the right after 'to help' with a line longer than criticize (or a summation of all of the rest)

Oof I try to do the last two or three😅

This makes me so sad tbh because if I look around me I can’t unsee it…🌹

last door on the right cud be To Build/Execute