Don’t do this.

maybe give someone more than 5 hours to respond to a cast before you go in their replies and say you're angry at them for not engaging within 5 hours 😇 

i have never engaged with this person before, i have no idea who they are 

this type of energy is what is making me frustrated with how the culture here has been changing. it is starting to become a slog and an annoyance to maintain presence consistently here, rather than a pleasure, because of exactly this attitude.

i am sure this falls on a lot of deaf ears, but gotta still try to mold the culture to a healthy and respectful place where people don't feel obligated to receive attention from others

fullstack & ux 🏳️‍🌈 building /uno

The prevalence of instantaneous and near-instantaneous messaging has often left people with the expectation of 100% availability and access to people. Makes me wish, sometimes, for the days of taking days or more to hear back from someone.

* higher rank in Tae Kwon Do than Vladimir Putin
* hobbies include trying to reach you about your car's extended warranty
* OSS contributor (I updated a README)

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This isn't quite the means I saw by which my ends would be achieved.

well because of the instantaneous nature of messaging and social media, more messages are sent, which means you have a higher volume to respond to. so now it can take days to hear back from someone still because you get burnt out from responding or overwhelmed 🫠