@jerry-d
When my wife and I became parents, it was the most exhilarating and exhausting periods of our lives at that point. It was primarily just my wife and me raising our babies to toddlers then to preschoolers on to kindergarteners for the first 5 years of their lives.
However, as they grew older, they had other influences from teachers, grandparents, parents of other children going to the same school, coaches, etc. and many of these influences were impactful and formative.
Today, my children are already and in many ways, wiser than me. So much so that I wonder at the old adage about the proverbial apple falling from the tree and if maybe, when their apples fell, they rolled down the hill across the road and over the bridge to greener pastures.
And still I wonder - is it really our superlative parenting skills or is it truer that it takes a village to raise our kids? The many and varied influences from the grandparents, to the aunts and uncles, cousins, teachers, coaches, and more, have mingled to produce a nurturing synergy that is helping these apple seeds to grow.
And so it is that I wonder, will this fortunate confluence of events happen the same way it has for our children as it has my wife and me?
I wonder.