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my stalker just tried to make contact again after a little over a year ago I told him to piss off (and it worked)

now I’m thinking I should have blocked him on LinkedIn because I’m anticipating he’s just gonna show up at my work now.

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I’ve shown people at work what he looks like and described him. 

The sad thing is I would love other people to come in and ask about me. So this kinda dampens that for friends who maybe don’t even know I’m back in Ohio let alone working at a job where they could visit me and get pastries

Yeah, I know you’re right
He’s never been violent, just insistent and over informs

Omg Torii. Please be safe. Carry pepper spray and taser.

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grey rocking / community notification —especially with the delusion of the power dynamics 

I also had a middle school stalker who had me on a h*tl*st, twice—just to make sure I was unalived— before he was expelled. who then called the home I was visiting after my third child was born and I was visiting. freaked me the fuck out. then I had someone earlier this year leaving flowers and gifts and no notes or contact and it brought allll of that back up. still have no idea who left them which sort of bothers me even more. ugh. we need better mental health support in this country. 🫂 

hope you can do something extra nice and support/soothing to your nervous system today love 💕

Thanks. I’ll tell her. And I can easilydescribe him, he’s an ape of a man. Very tall and very distinct. 

He’s stalked me since I was in high school. It’s been not constant but once he starts thinking about me I have to always bluntly tell him to back off. I may jump the gun this time and do it up front and early. And then the block. 

Last time, around May/June of last year it was the worst. He basically left me a bunch of voice memos about me being his dom and it made my skin crawl. 

so I think he actually wants me to reject him, I’m torn on if I even say a word to him or just leave him on read - he’ll never know.

🫂 you can still do it now. and inform work that no one should be getting information on you unless it’s approved people you feel safe with. 

also, fuuuck that scary and I’m sorry you are dealing with this. please stay safe love 😘🫶🏻

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Idk the full situation, but please, stay safe, and if that means blocking him, then please do it