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jp 🎩
@jpfraneto.eth
im very happy because at first my partner was hesitant to go away and leave us alone with mila and now she came back after 4 days and told me that she feels that mila is actually more chill and nicer and i just smiled and told her i gave her all my presence as you were out. i can be the dad you need me to be. feels good
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Awesome man. Kids get different lessons from both parents, it's amazingly beneficial for her, and for you, and for your partner. Of course she's chill, she's been with you for four days, how could she not be?!
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jp 🎩
@jpfraneto.eth
haha love that you put it like that man, i appreciate it. we had fun. we cuddled. and what makes me happy is that my patience level was never surpassed it is wild how the presence of the mother makes the patience level different
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That's great. It's a huge challenge looking after your child on your own, overnight, for the first time. My kids are older and the longest mum has been away is one night, that's it, no more, than that. I actually want her to go for longer, partly because I think the kids need to realise that this parenting thing is a shared occupation and they don't need mum to do everything, and partly to prove to my partner that she doesn't need the final word on everything (it's hard sometimes for her to just let go and say, yep you can do it, and they'll be fine without me).
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jp 🎩
@jpfraneto.eth
oh man this is so important. i feel that this weekend was huge in my family because of that exact same thing. that’s what i was pointing at on the first cast. my partner is actually very surprised and happy about it. and i always knew that i was capable of taking care of the kids AND BE OK AND NOT STRESSED OUT WHILE DOING SO. but there is this deep unconscious fear or whatever it is in them that makes it hard for them to trust in that on the first place. but overall it feels very relieving. you need to fight that fight imho
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