Saw this tweet on a X and it’s actually very funny how some women can be, you jokingly threatened to cancel a meeting, and he jokingly reminded you he has options.
Now you’re upset? Dating is full of “tests.” You say something unserious to check how he reacts. 

A thread 🧵 👇

Just here to think out loud. crypto, life, maybe some jollof talk. 🇳🇬

Just own the fact that you expected him to chase, and got surprised when he didn’t. Sometimes the real problem isn’t that they have options… It’s that you thought you were the only one.

If a man said, “I might cancel,” and the woman replied, All good, I’ve got other guys waiting” she’d be labeled a queen for having boundaries. So why the double standard? He matched your energy. You cancelled the meeting. Fair exchange, no victim.

But when he mirrors that energy with confidence, suddenly he’s the villain… Why is it only funny when you say it? The truth is, most people want honesty, until it hurts their ego. He didn’t beg, he didn’t get defensive, he just let you know: you’re not the only one with choices. And that’s healthy.