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does stoicism appeal to you as a woman? 

i often see men posting about it or engaging with it more than women, but have never taken the time (yet) to reflect on why that may be.

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When I’m stoic I’m called cold, emotionless, or get accused of having testing bitch face.

The same way confidence and leadership can be seen as being bossy. Hate this shit.

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(man here) what about the philosophy of stoicism? it's been trending in recent years, and i must admit, it's helped me in many ways

That’s not how it’s interpreted for women. When I act in a stoic way and embrace resilience and focusing on what I can control I’m seen as cold and uncaring when really I accept what I cannot change and move forward. It gets applied to women differently and we are chastised in society for embracing that philosophy.

Stoicism is a philosophy, it has nothing to do with your demeanor

I’m stoic AF. I just feel like I get shit for it. But I get shit for every thing. Because I like fall and pumpkin spice lattes and ugh boots I’m also a basic bitch. Can’t win so just do what I like and give zero shits what anyone thinks, but that comes off as arrogant instead of confident ;)