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I wish being direct as a woman was seen in the same light as a man who is direct… l:

𝔡𝔢𝔰𝔦𝔤𝔫𝔢𝔯 ⭑ .ᐟ

It is. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. This is Lambchop’s world, and you do what you want

my whole life I’ve been told I’m “too much”, so I would shrink myself and try to be less for the comfort of others

but now, as I heal my inner child and live more authentically I’m choosing to celebrate being “too much” and taking it as a compliment😎

if I’m too much for you, you’re right. go find less somewhere else✌🏻

@amethystaura  being “too much” was never the problem, it was the room that was too small, @lambchop thank you for tagging me, this felt like a hug to my younger self. here’s to taking up space loudly, fully, and with no apologies 🪽🥂🫂❤️

https://farcaster.xyz/amethystaura/0xd42210fa

Honestly… say it louder, queen. 
When a man is direct, it’s seen as confidence.
But when a woman is? It’s often called “too much.
Don’t let that dim your voice, this is your world, and you deserve to take up space in it.🫶✨🪽

💙&💡
Goal Diggers girlie
Base Enthusiast @baseafrica @berabaddies

I would never understand gender biases for the life of me

if you come for the queen you best not miss

I was just about to put this 
And
Unlady like
Angry
Emotional
Irrational


The list of things we ARE NOT and they are 😉

I think the double standard is real and true. I will speak my truth.

Say this: I will speak direct and get respect.

It’s a double standard. I’ve been called cranky and a b*** for being direct or not willing to collaborate (on their terms) or engage in conversations after setting boundaries

* at work

This. It’s exhausting when a man is direct, he’s confident and knows what he wants. A woman being direct is seen differently. It’s exhausting

They call us "aggressive" "rude" "proud" but call men "focus", it’s so insane

I wish for this too cause it’s really crazy and idek how to feel sometimes

It is being seen as too assertive and we should be proud of being too anything. We live in a mediocre world why satisfy with little