Philosophy

hot take

normalize being an asshole for the sake of somebody's future

common examples:

1.) in shape friends telling out of shape friend to work out

2.) friends who are dating/married telling single friend to ask someone out

obviously the person has to put the work in but the above makes it way easier to get started

on the giving side, it can feel very uncomfortable doing this, but the receiving side will greatly appreciate it later

don't take my casts super seriously please (most of them at least)

Well, you're an asshole if you just 'tell' them to do it; if you suggest it skillfully, then it's the opposite of that...

Yeah this is true lol I’ve def done it indirectly I think doing it is the biggest thing though

You might have genuinely good intentions, but if you verbalise them as “get some exercise, fat boy” the outcome may not be great… 
(but that also kinda depends on whom are you talking to)