I had a football coach who loved to say "bitchers bitch"

a bit nonsensical and it's not a phrase I would use
 
but I will say that despite last hearing it 15 years ago it still pops into my head when I see it and I see it fairly often

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And to complete the yin yang “and doers do”

what I'm trying to say is bitcher's bitch

My fencing coach Volodymyr used to yell at us “maximum lunge” until we were about to fall apart. Then he’d yell “more maximum” - a phrase that made no sense but stuck with me. Now whenever I do anything hard, I hear him in my mind yelling “more maximum” at me. Funny how these coach-isms stay with you.

My coaches screamed "I can't means I don't want to"

I think about this a lot

What if you try to remind him and find out why he said that? Maybe his explanation will help you let go remember?