i was walking my friend home yesterday night and we ended up on a deeply personal topic. with tears in his eyes, he shared some stories from his childhood where he and his mom were constantly beaten up by his older brother. 

now he has a drinking problem, he always thinks that something is wrong with him and he can’t find a way to get better. 

it’s heart breaking to see your friends suffer like that, but i guess the only thing i actually can offer here is just to be around…

Classical musician and educator with psychology qualification. humansdid.com ambassador https://paragraph.xyz/@katekornish

Being for him someone he can cry with and talk through all his pain is already priceless! Been there on the other side too

I translate movies, co-own a loss-making fast-food joint, and raise two kids

💜 my father was an alcoholic, and most of my russian girlfriends too….so it is really an important thing for me…i would love to help…but i can’t if a person is comfortable drinking…

it's sad but you really can't
there is no way to save someone who doesn't want to be saved
that is how I lost my brother 10 yrs ago :(

i’m really sorry… yeah i even asked him once “you know you just wanna die?” and he just calmly said…”yes”