I think most people shy away from the topic” SEX” cos of moral or religious standards. Having a sexually compatible partner is as important as having a good husband or wife. 
I am a strong advocate of sexual purity even at that I know what I want and what my body needs. I have read books concerning sex. I am well taught. I can't settle for less when it comes to what's going to give my body maximum satisfaction. 
I discuss sex with my partner, and I have always discussed sex even if we are not going to be down for it. I like people's opinions when it comes to sex. Some people don't even like to be choked or spanked, and some won't allow you to give them head. We all have our preferences. And please don't forget sexual consent. Arousal is not consent, she's wet or hard is not consent.
Sex is meant to be enjoyed, When it's not going well, be expressive. That doesn't make you a whore or spoilt child.

P.S
All these are from books I have read, I am not a tutor nor do I know what it is about😭 I am innocent

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