Shaibu Mabel on Farcaster

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I think most people shy away from the topic” SEX” cos of moral or religious standards. Having a sexually compatible partner is as important as having a good husband or wife. I am a strong advocate of sexual purity even at that I know what I want and what my body needs. I have read books concerning sex. I am well taught. I can't settle for less when it comes to what's going to give my body maximum satisfaction. I discuss sex with my partner, and I have always discussed sex even if we are not going to be down for it. I like people's opinions when it comes to sex. Some people don't even like to be choked or spanked, and some won't allow you to give them head. We all have our preferences. And please don't forget sexual consent. Arousal is not consent, she's wet or hard is not consent. Sex is meant to be enjoyed, When it's not going well, be expressive. That doesn't make you a whore or spoilt child. P.S All these are from books I have read, I am not a tutor nor do I know what it is about😭 I am innocent

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The only sexual orientation some of us received while growing up is this “You will get pregnant if a man touches you”

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it’s very important and as you said culture can create trauma. i’m lebanese and we never talk about this / and now i have a hard time talking about it or joking about it. the further i can go is to say as a joke “im too hot” 😭🤣

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This is very 100% correct. I believe that if people don’t shy away from the topic sex most especially our African parents, there would be less teen pregnancy spreading all around .

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Nathan pfp

It’s the last lines for me 🙂 Good write up though, many things to learn from here

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Hanna pfp

Love how open and honest this is. Knowing your body and your boundaries isn’t a crime it’s called self-awareness!

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I completely agree that compatibility in sex is one of the most important things in a relationship and of course I support the idea that sex needs to be talked about and discussed

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Absolutely agree. Sexual compatibility and open communication are vital for a healthy relationship. It’s refreshing to see this talked about openly consent and understanding each other’s needs matter just as much as love and respect. Thanks for sharing this.

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I’m coming back to this 😂😂🌚 Please Let me finish writing my tweet

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It’s worse in third world countries, it’s also crazy that that’s where we have the highest cases of abuse.

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Kinkiness spices things up in any relationship lol, every happily married couple knows this😉

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Let me go and get jotter

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Top-notch, sex is very necessary in ships, most people dont know this

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Damn see sex talk racking the views 😂

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It’s a very important aspect

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Damn! Didn't expect to see this in my TL. Tho but sex is crucial and should be taught.

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sex, what even is that 👀 thanks for the education ive learnt a lot ♡

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Emphasis on consent.

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