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I’ve noticed something about myself & I’m wondering if it’s a personal quirk or a more universal experience.

If I leave a negative first impression on someone, bc of bad luck or a small mistake or something, I tend to notice that I am often a worse version of myself in future interactions with them. Anyone else?

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my wife and i talk about this regularly after meeting new people, and usually come to realize that the perceived negative first impression is all in our heads. so unless it was objectively negative hopefully you can put it aside in future interactions and consider them fresh and neutral.

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This is probably true, and I think it is mostly just me getting in my head and then in my own way, probably all subconsciously.

yeah, feel ya on that t. even as reasonable individuals, which I am sure you are, it's too easy to do and most of the time damned near impossible to talk yourself out of on your own.