A quick story: (And a lesson about civility) 

I was on a packed bus today in Japan. People were trying to get on from the front door, where you pay, but there was no space. 

So the bus driver opened the back door and invited them on from there, where there was more room.

He didn't say a word about payment. 

The people squeezed in from the back and off we went. Whenever one of those people got off the bus, they lined back up at the bus's front door, and asked the driver if they could pay.

Civility isn't determined by a leader or president. Your actions are what creates a more mature and thoughtful community. 

Do what's right. Don't let negative messaging and selfishness influence you. 

What you do today can make you and those around you better humans.