casual observation: the people forced to apologize by mobs issue great apologies.

the people who expect the apologies themselves tend to be really bad at apologizing (and forgiving)

so stuff is kind of backwards.

https://x.com/paulg/status/1797296875936038973?s=46

Design and software at Apple. Also into AI, philosophy of mind, ethics.

People demanding public apologies generally don’t want to make up, they want obedience.

yep, never apologizing is the best strat at this point
what a lovely set of incentive structures we've settled upon