nautiluxx

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Look for meaning in what you do. And encourage others to do the same.

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I just donated to @katekornish's crowdfund "Help Ofentse Get Her Own Bassoon"

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Listen to your significant other. Even when you don’t agree. Even when both of you are in silence.

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If you support a partner who is struggling to the point where they can’t imagine a better future, be sure to let them know that you can. And you do!

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@noiceapp I’ve setup noice correctly but I can’t send tips. I’ve already liked a number of posts but my tip total is 0. Also, the earning config tab disappeared from my noice settings. Am I doing something wrong?

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Question: what do you do when supporting others becomes too much for you? I once cried on the Samaritan phone line. Since then, I learned not to expect from myself to handle everything for those around me. I still do my best, but when I hit my limit, I just 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Got caught by a rainstorm cycling home. This is the result. If I'm lucky, my laptop won't die within 24 hours due to corrosion. 🤬

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A codependent relationship may form between you and your loved one who has been struggling for a long time. One of you may depend on the other in order to feel good. Even you, the "stable" one, may start depending on their validation. That happens and it can be repaired, which - like all body/mind related things - is a process.

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If your loved one struggles with depression, uderstand that you cannot make them feel better. You can comfort them, of course, but only they alone can achieve feeling good. Any good therapist will tell you that. Your job is to make *yourself* feel better, so you will be able to share in your loved one's good moments.

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Give me a good reason to…

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Drinking and listening to free jazz with friends 🤘 #music #jazz #friendship

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Who's the one keeping the $hit together?

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Who's the one keeping the $hit together?

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Who's the one keeping the $hit together?

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💭 Check out this Ponder

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GM When your loved one carries a heavy burden in life, it may sometimes negatively impact their decision-making. How do you help them to make better decisions without overstepping the boundaries of your relationship and without hurting their self-respect? How do you avoid taking on a parental role?

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Isn’t it such a relief when you can tell your supported loved one that sometimes life is too much for you too?

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Never underestimate the healing power of a good night’s sleep.

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Years ago, my boyfriend said to me “I’m gonna quit therapy, it’s not helping me.” Today he said to me “I’m too fucked up for therapy.” Why do I still keep supporting him? Stupid love, I guess. 👨🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻

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Want to help a grieving person? Spend time with them. And if you can, allow them to express their grief in any way they need to - through words, tears, singing, touch, dance… And when you’re done, take care of yourself. And then repeat. For a long time. Find out how grief really works - it may not be what we imagined.

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