Dilek

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Love it when people share on my /psychoanalysis channel. Means a lot 🤍

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Self-help books constantly tell people how to live, but most of the time, nothing much changes in people's lives after reading them. Sometimes, even reading these books becomes a part of 'how not to live'. In fact, we all usually have an idea of how not to live, but maybe we haven’t discovered how to live, simply because there’s no one true way to live.

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$120 is my monthly pilates budget so yeah... I'm choosing self-care hope it doesn’t give off power badge energy lmao

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In nature, time flows through sound too

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Some people’s curiosity just bothers me. I'm thinking maybe it’s their arrogant vibe. They use curiosity more like a way to feel above others. They don't have genuine interest, instead their curiosity turns into something that mixes with arrogance. The answers don’t matter, 'cause the question itself is already a kind of power move.

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Time feels different here. Slower and softer Leaving istanbul was the right call

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It feels weird at first, but the more you do it, the more grounding it gets :^

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Sometimes I talk to a close friend I trust and who genuinely wants to listen. I just let myself speak freely about whatever's on my mind and often, something slips out that surprises me. Other times, I record voice notes and just let my thoughts wander. It helps me hear things I didn’t even know I was thinking.

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Many people base their worth on what the algorithm puts in the spotlight. Social media can boost them for that, but real life won’t keep them there.

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🤣 btw be yourself doesn’t mean spilling everything. Gotta respect where the other person’s at too

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Destroyed my friends' faces but with love 😌

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Bion talks about how painful emotions don’t just disappear. They stay. What changes is our capacity to tolerate them. Therapy isn’t about removing pain, but about developing the tools to think about it, to stay with it without being overwhelmed.

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The family of a man killed in a road rage incident used AI to bring his voice and image into the courtroom. AI gave him presence Not sure how to feel about that https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cq808px90wxo

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Good to know humans are still the bad guys. Not AI (yet) lmao

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When I was younger, I really thought time was endless. Yeah I thought I could always do it later, that nothing would slip away. But time doesn’t work like that. It moves quiet and fast, and you don’t realize what you’ve missed until it’s already gone. I see it now: energy, boldness, momentum... They don’t last forever. Some moments only show up at a certain age, in a certain mindset. And if you’re not there to catch them, they don’t come back. Maybe the biggest lie I believed was that I had time.

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In that scenario, a major shift would happen, not just in how systems work, but in how we understand life itself. Property, work, value, all these are the things modern life is built on, and for most people that’s where meaning comes from, even if they don’t always say it out loud So if those things start to shift, we might see new ways to make sense of what matters. And might start seeing decentralized but connected communities take shape

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Totally. That tension can be messy but that’s where real stuff comes from

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I'm organizing a book club soon and the first book is When Nietzsche Wept by Irvin Yalom. I read it years ago, but now that I’m reading it again, I’m seeing some parts differently thanks to everything I’ve learned since. What’s interesting though is that, despite all that, the emotions I felt back then still hit just as hard.

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