I went to the city because it “seemed like the right thing to do” — it’s where I could get (high status, interesting, challenging, white collar) employment and it seemed easiest to meet a partner in these dense locations. 

But I increasingly care less and less about all of that. If I could do it all over again I wouldn’t make any of the same choices. 

I feel like the rise of disorder is a downward spiral and a doom loop. Nothing ever changes and the initial disorder begets more 

San Francisco, ever on the forefront, was a preview for the rest of us. Look how little progress they have made, if any

I went to the city because it “seemed like the right thing to do” — it’s where I could get (high status, interesting, challenging, white collar) employment and it seemed easiest to meet a partner in these dense locations. 

But I increasingly care less and less about all of that. If I could do it all over again I wouldn’t make any of the same choices. 

I feel like the rise of disorder is a downward spiral and a doom loop. Nothing ever changes and the initial disorder begets more 

San Francisco, ever on the forefront, was a preview for the rest of us. Look how little progress they have made, if any

https://thecausalfallacy.com/p/its-time-to-talk-about-americas-disorder

The Farcaster formerly known as Kchamp. Books, beats, bodybuilding, bright ideas and beautiful things.

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the pressure to chase status and the perfect life can drain you and it sucks
I hit that same wall about a year after graduation and realized it’s just not working. nothing ever turns out the way it’s supposed to