Protect your peace. If they're emotionally unavailable, keep it transactional and detached. Don't pour energy into a void. If they're argumentative, agree playfully and disengage. Their need to win isn't your battleground. Meet people where they are, not where you wish they'd be.

How will you resolve this with "putting in some energy into the relationship". 

This seems like a completely avoidant approach.

Putting in energy means facing things, not dodging them. Avoidance isn’t effort, it’s escape.

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