emotional

Some days ago I came across a term: “bias generosity”

It means we slowly stop appreciating the people who stay with us.
A maid who’s been around for 3 years might make mistakes -so we hesitate to give her extra😐 
An employee who struggles sometimes, makes mistakes but sticked with us for 3 years - we stay skeptical😪 

But a vendor we just met, who smiles warmly?💙 
We might hand them $50-$100 just for being kind in that one moment💜 

Maybe it’s because we don’t see a stranger’s flaws…
but we’ve memorized the flaws of those close.
It’s easier to be generous to someone new.

the goal isn’t to stop being kind to strangers💛 
But maybe real kindness is this:
To still offer grace to those who’ve walked beside us - through ordinary, imperfect days💜 🙌 

what do you think abt this?👀

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Absolutely agree. Kindness sees no barriers. It just is. It shouldn't change your bias for the people you know better now vis-a-vis newer people.

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