Naomi
@afrochicks
interesting to see the discourse around naomi osaka’s post match interview most great athletes hate losing more than they love winning the emptiness and sadness i felt after an underperformance in sports was visceral especially as an individual athlete not in a team sport i think that its because the loss is so measurable like you’re literally a loser🤣 it’s so visible and public too if you mess up at work it’s between you and your boss maybe colleagues too but to lose when the world is watching, when your family and friends are cheering for you and maybe even travelled and bought tickets to support you just sucks brain replaying every mistake you made non stop but she’ll be fine and bounce back it’s just part of sport https://x.com/espnw/status/1941175577806848234?s=46
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Koolkheart
@koolkheart.eth
Maybe not internationally, but nationally, I know this feeling, I’ve been there. I was a sport guy in high school, I represented individually and as a team. I must tell you, I blamed myself more for not winning individual than when it was a team game. And I remember in a team game, I blamed myself more when I always felt like I was the savior of the team (like, I should have done more or better, when in normal sense, I have my everything). It’s really never easy… sportsmen and women are humans and have emotions too.
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Naomi
@afrochicks
thats so interesting!! with team sports i thought y’all would deal with the loss together didn’t really think of one person thinking they could have done more ( unless it was like the goal keeper or someone scoring an own goal ) thankyou for sharing!! and yes its not easy!
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Koolkheart
@koolkheart.eth
Really sometimes you wouldn’t know until you are there. I actually played as a goalkeeper too, but I don’t remember scoring an own goal, but I usually just have a flash of (the pass would have gone to the other guy and we might have had a winning goal or a draw) Then as a handballer, every loss made me feel the coach expected more strikes from me even when he says “well done”! I remember my track coach encouraging me at an 100M event which I struggled to qualify for but meeting people bigger and older than me by saying (you ran with your uncles)… I was literally just boiling and saying to myself “you could have just lean forward more and grab the 3rd”… Dealing with losses or failures isn’t easy tbh
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