I’m a fairly social person but I try to avoid events attended but those I dislike at all costs

Have to skip my work friend’s birthday lunch because he invited someone I absolutely cannot stand. We don’t even work with this individual anymore so I don’t know why I have to suffer through their presence

My ego will be the end of my relationships with people eventually but we’ll revisit this thought when we cross that bridge

*Your friendly neighborhood drama queen. Tall. Reddish-blonde. Doesn’t smile*
Normie homie. 

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No no being like this is healthy dont feel the need to convince yourself otherwise

I’m not worried - if anything, I’m frustrated

I imagine your relationships are based on a lot more than attending specific social events. If you're worried you can always organize a seperate birthday thing with them.

I convince myself that personal boundaries are healthy but one would argue they can’t be more important than relationships