emotional

permit me to be vulnerable okay? 
my parents are currently in the process of a messy divorce and it’s really terrible for my siblings and i. it’s been going on for almost a decade and i still don’t know how to feel about it. i literally haven’t been around my parents for years now and as i’m growing older it’s becoming hard to ignore the reality. so i’m asking for people with dysfunctional families like mine, how did you carry on? cos i can’t even cry or laugh. i’m completely stoic about it and it worries me that i can’t give the situation an emotion.

secretary. talkative. igbo girl. thought daughter. secret web3 agent.

The burden is not yours to carry, just live your own life, they've lived theirs and for all you know it might be the best decision for them, if it's going to give them peace let it be and choose yours as well.

yeah i guess, i’ve been away from it for long. so i’m just trying to acknowledge it now at least.