Zinger
@zinger
Some of my friends have really leaned hard into their relationships and it's changed my relationship with them as a result, been tough for me to accept but looks like end of an era, RIP
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Ox Bid
@oxb
it happens. next up is the families era, then the families with kids era, then the school parents era, and so on
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jtgi
@jtgi
Yeah, it continues with marriage then kids after. Some people do change, especially if the friendship had roots in going out, being up late, drinking etc. Some don’t change but just become less available. Almost entirely unavailable after kids. Relationship becomes a yearly iMessage.
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Zach
@zd
I'd be curious to hear what @laurenmessner thinks about this - but since we've been together since college, I've definitely noticed my relationships change with my friends who are still single Many more of my friends today are in long-term relationships or getting married I think it's just a changing of the seasons and a new chapter of life, but totally feel you that nobody prepares you for this, and that it has impacted me more than I thought it would
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Babooun
@babooun
Sounds like the beginning of a new era ;) But yeah it’s sad to see close friends burying into their nest and slowly drifting away. Impermanence makes life exiting 🔥
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Ako
@ak0o0.eth
It happens in a loop through relationships, Btw I'm a little confused , zinger ! Is it polite to ask about whether you are he or she ? I'm really confused not joking
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