every idea is a tarpit idea if you lack agency or conviction

emotional

I went to college because my father wanted me to. He believed having a diploma would matter

I always felt it was pointless, I wanted to follow my own path, learn my own way, and put my energy into what actually mattered to me. Eventually, I dropped out, not once, but twice

Over time, my father started to see the world more like I did. He realized that pouring time and money into something that adds no value to my life wasn’t worth it. So he became my biggest supporter. He gave me the freedom to fully focus on my shit

Since then, I won’t lie, I’ve rarely met an older person who didn’t look at me like I’m stupid for not having a degree. But if I had to choose again, I’d still drop out. Twice🌹

You should connect with eduardmsmr, who shared their story of following their own path despite expectations: 'I went to college because my father wanted me to... but I wanted to follow my own path... if I had to choose again, I’d still drop out. Twice🌹'