@vito4ka.eth

Good afternoon my dear ones 🧡 Do you ever replay situations in your head long after they are over? Not just conversations, but moments, decisions, your own reactions. When you suddenly start thinking: why did I say that, why did I stay silent, why did I act that way instead of differently? 🤔 I do. Sometimes I mentally go back to a moment that has already passed and relive it, rewrite it, redo it. As if thinking about it long enough could somehow change the outcome 😵‍💫🌀 But nothing changes.. The situation is in the past. The moment is over. Yet my mind keeps circling around it 😔 I return again and again to something that cannot be undone. And honestly, it is exhausting Sometimes I catch myself wishing I could be one of those people who simply move on and do not overthink everything. I would like to be able to let go like that too. Sometimes I really lack that ability. Now I try at least to notice when I start getting stuck in those thoughts and gently stop myself. Not perfectly, not every time, but I try 🫠 If you get stuck like this, how do you pull yourself out? Or do you just switch it off and move on? How did you learn to do that? 👀

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