Something I find really interesting about friendships these days is the lack of communication. It feels like no one is putting in real effort anymore, and when you bring it up, the response is usually, "I was going through a lot." And while that may be true, my honest question is, "how am I supposed to know that if you don’t say anything?"

Speaking from experience, I’ve distanced myself from a friend during a depressive episode, so I do understand how overwhelming emotions can make you unintentionally neglect people. But still, you can’t be shocked if that same energy is thrown back at you.

I know it’s good to communicate but sometimes i feel like it’s better to just face it all alone to avoid a lot of things. 

Personally when im going through a lot, i know deep down that no other person can relate so i just deal with my shit alone and distance myself from the world

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I like to deal with things on my own too but the thing is when you’re going through ur own shit, u tend to neglect ur friends and when they feel neglected they’ll return the behavior. So a simple "hey, I can’t communicate properly rn" would go far