My sister has been adrift since she was young. No goals. She barely finished high school, dropped out of university. Worked her ass off. Had a daughter in her 20s with an unreliable boyfriend. Our relatives helped her with a job without a degree, but she didn't want to study. Now she lives with her husband in the countryside, three children and pregnant again. Her sister looks terrible, she doesn't look after herself. She constantly complains about poverty and lack of prospects, but there is no one to blame but herself. I don't understand why she's like this. Mom is constantly worried because of her, she loses her health. Everyone in our family is well off, but my sister is the only one like that. She is always whining, asking for help, it's just unbearable!