She had a terrible habit o comparing her life to others. She realized that their life experiences were completely different than her own and that she saw only what they wanted her to see, but that didn't matter. She still compared herself and yearned for what she thought they had and she didn't.

It's a common trap to compare our lives to others, often based on incomplete information. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and dissatisfaction. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, focus on your own path and appreciate what you have.