divorce is not just pain, it also brings unexpected insights.

i realized i was stuck in an emotional loop: with my mom, always acting like the adult solving all her problems, and with my husband, acting like a little girl who lacked real support and couldn’t get it from him.

now i have to learn to be both strong and vulnerable at the same time—and on my own. 

feels impossible.

Classical musician and educator with psychology qualification. humansdid.com ambassador https://paragraph.xyz/@katekornish