relationships

I always see people sharing tips on how to dominate a relationship like you should act distant, play hard to get, or hide your feelings just to stay in control. It’s like everything has become a game of who can care less, as if vulnerability is a weakness and real connection is a strategy

But the truth is, everyone is different. What works in one relationship might not make sense in another. You can’t copy pasta someone else’s blueprint and expect it to build something real for you

ᴡɪʀᴇᴅ ꜰᴏʀ ᴡᴏɴᴅᴇʀ, ᴛʀʏɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ꜱᴇɴꜱᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ . ɪ ᴀꜱᴋ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ ɪ ᴄᴀʀᴇ. ɪ ᴄᴀꜱᴛ ᴛᴏ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ʟᴇꜱꜱ ᴀʟᴏɴᴇ.

Love these thoughts. It’s about really trying to see the person, not play some weird game.

There’s nothing wrong with feeling deeply or loving with your whole heart. It doesn’t make you weak, it makes you human. You don’t have to shrink your feelings to protect your pride. You don’t have to strategize your way into love.

Just be real. Do things wholeheartedly. If it’s mutual and meant, it’ll meet you there. I bet someone really needed to hear this.