@thumbsup.eth
I used to use Buy Me a Coffee. It was brutal how much both the service and PayPal took. I wrote about this exact thing in my article The Next Chapter which gos over why I left web 2 as a creator and why.
That said, I’ve also seen that crypto payments are niche enough that you’re forgoing a huge network effect by choosing the path I took.
https://paragraph.com/@thumbsup/the-next-chapter-1