I was once owing up to 10 million in debt due to gambling. To burst your bubble, I didn’t pay my year 3 to year 5 school fees, plus 2 extra years, because I was using them to gamble. Nobody gave me 1 Naira to pay back. Nobody.
Went back home to Lagos and started doing taxi driving, teaching, painting, then started crypto. Nobody gave me 1 dime.
I reached out to those I was owing, asked for forgiveness, and told them to give me time; started paying them gradually. I went back in 2020 to pay all my school fees and got my certificate after almost 6 years.
So you won’t come and gaslight me or emotionally blackmail me about wanting to commit suicide. Been there, I survived, you will.
When you are ready to fix your life, you will start doing the right things. Will it be easy ? No, but The change will be gradual, you’ll be intentional. Stop seeking pity up and down, go fix your life, yes you can!
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