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Most coordination failures aren’t logistical or resource based - they’re relational. They come from not knowing how to handle conflict, lacking integrative emotional intelligence and getting stuck in reactive loops. “The quality of our lives depends not on whether we have conflict, but on how we respond to it.” Thomas Crum Integrative intelligence is the capacity to hold competing perspectives, emotions and incentives at the same time without collapsing into defensiveness or shutdown. And reactivity tends to feel like conviction but it is usually just nervous system dysregulation... “If you can’t manage your emotions, you don’t really manage anything.”Daniel Goleman We keep trying to solve coordination by arguing, implementing new tooling, scrapping without diagnosis, and politics but the real bottleneck might just be emotional maturity at scale.

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