@serenussage
no definitely not so obvious. i had an interaction once with a person who wanted me to run things but then when it came to me running things never let go of the reigns, and then got made because i wasn't running things and consistently put me down because of it, and i told them, i am not going to ask for respect because that means i don't even have it already.
there was another incident in a few different relationships i was in and i had to leave.
so those were the inspiration for this