more that anything i hate to be a judge in auditions/competitions y etc 

i really don’t comprehend why whoever should decide if you deserve something or not.

Classical musician and educator with psychology qualification. humansdid.com ambassador https://paragraph.xyz/@katekornish

Absolutely agree. So many lives and dreams have been crushed by someone judging from outdated knowledge or a narrow perspective. It’s heartbreaking how much damage such gatekeeping can do. Thankfully, not everything works like that. Otherwise we’d still be stuck in Web 1.0 or riding horse carriages. Good thing some people don’t take it too personally and just build forward