talking about gender with a friend here last night. she just recently (after talking to ChatGPT) realized that gender and sexuality are separate parts of a person.

she is curious because she'd never known a trans person to meditate or think deeply about the inner self, only who focus heavily on outward appearance.

I assured her that any sort of awakening I have in the future won't change the way I see my gender, but that overall I see it as a less and less important part of my being. I assume this also just comes with getting older, but more so with becoming.

writer, explorer. wandering through life.

i didn’t realize gender and sex were separate until high school 

and then sexual orientation is a whole other thing

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😅 advanced level conversations haha at least there are what she calls tomboys here to reference. it's a cold, super relaxed part of Vietnam so many women are wearing baggy, comfy gender neutral clothes