kevinoconnell

Philosophy

hot take

normalize being an asshole for the sake of somebody's future

common examples:

1.) in shape friends telling out of shape friend to work out

2.) friends who are dating/married telling single friend to ask someone out

obviously the person has to put the work in but the above makes it way easier to get started

on the giving side, it can feel very uncomfortable doing this, but the receiving side will greatly appreciate it later

totally (un)related but most of my friends are in a relationship so any chance they get they are trying to be like this

totally (un)related but most of my friends are in a relationship so any chance they get they are trying to be like this 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_SPylOEtOPo