@kazani

Some of the most important questions in life never get answered. They get lived. That's a frustrating realization if you're the kind of person who likes certainty. You want the correct career. The correct city. The correct relationship. The correct version of yourself. You want enough information to eliminate regret before making the choice. But eventually you run into a conundrum. Certain decisions can only be understood after you've already made them. You cannot fully know what staying would have taught you while simultaneously learning what leaving teaches. You cannot become both people.

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