I've been married for 10 years. We have two daughters. My husband is a good father, a great helper and support. But there is no passion between us at all. We make love once a month and that's because we have to, not because we want to. There is no variety and desire to change something. I tell my husband about it, and he says we are grown up established people, we have two children, a lot of work and no time. I see that he does not really want intimacy and I already too. Of course, passionate lovemaking is not the main thing, but without it somehow not very much. I think about emotions and cool sensations, but in reality - nothing.....