This is what the wife was doing while I was gone. 🎄

We’re going to have 5 trees in here by the time she’s done.  😂

Im a bit of a degen, but also a chad.
Base Maxi




ᴡɪʀᴇᴅ ꜰᴏʀ ᴡᴏɴᴅᴇʀ, ᴛʀʏɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ꜱᴇɴꜱᴇ ᴏꜰ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ . ɪ ᴀꜱᴋ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ ɪ ᴄᴀʀᴇ. ɪ ᴄᴀꜱᴛ ᴛᴏ ꜰᴇᴇʟ ʟᴇꜱꜱ ᴀʟᴏɴᴇ.

dude today mine is going through the worst day of her life and the victim inside me thinks it is all his fault and it’s shitty so yea, 100% 

happy wife happy life

the hardest part is not blaming her for not doing more for her life, and actually want to change the course of what is experiencing now (which is not my mission)

my mission is to just hold space for her. love her as she is. right now. with everything she has, and everything she carries

and that is hard. because i can see how she could be better. by having other habits. putting more energy into things that can bring value to her life

but that would be wanting to change her

not meeting her where she is

Whatever is happening, it seems like you have the right mindset. I’m wishing the best for you and your wife.

yes. at the root it is all ok. just necessary shakeouts so that everything that is not true can go away and we can be the best version of ourselves

thanks for asking 🙏🏼 living your life along another human is such a trip