If you don’t pay close attention, all your preferences could end up being not what you actually enjoy but what is high status or what will not anger your tribe

do you think this is a good thing or a bad thing? say more :)

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Definitely a bad thing 
Has zero positives to it
But do say more, if you see any good thing about it

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positives: you’re likable to the people you’re trying to appeal to, gain status in that group which can lead to opportunities 

negatives: loss of independent, critical thinking, frail sense of self worth that fluctuates with group sentiment, inability to work on unpopular (to your group) things for long stretches of time

Hnmmm
Is people pleasing really considered a positive

These are the rewards you reap by being a people pleaser. Every action someone continues to do is giving them some kind of reward otherwise they wouldn’t continue doing it

Oh that’s one pov I’m just now seeing 
I agree with that, I guess