My ex-wife was a hysterical woman. Didn't see her for two years. Recently, an acquaintance said that he met a gorgeous girl, offered to go with him to visit her. I arrived - cheerful, smart, interesting, relaxed .... my ex. When I got home, I expressed my surprise to my family and friends. And then it started-- she's such a jerk. I listened and it hit me - all the years my family and friends poked and pestered my wife, because objectively she is better than all of us, and I indulged them. She did not let me drink, had time to earn, to watch the house, me, constantly studied, I was motivated to study and 2 promotions. We traveled abroad, made a cool renovation, changed cars. And now I have what? Friends, who except for booze once a week do not need anything and relatives waiting for them when they have an apartment - to live with someone again they stupidly do not let me. Why didn't I realize it before((((